Some people do not enjoy or understand phone sex. They don’t “get it” and think of it as a way to replace regular sex. It’s not…. it’s an enhancement to masturbation, but in no way can it ever replace the real deal. But that’s ok – because it shouldn’t be your intention to replace regular real-time sex with a partner. Phone sex is really just another way to masturbate!
Phone Sex is just another aide for jerking off….. except that it’s really about your ears. You get turned on by the sound, a story, or maybe from a role play scenario about a fantasy you’ve had all your life. In a roleplaying game, for instance, you might act out a fantasy character through experiences ….. and it’s essentially the same thing in phone sex. Perhaps you want an erotic fantasy described in graphic detail to you, like a story. The cool part about phone sex is that you can actually tap into another person’s imagination. Together 2 people can build a shared fantasy rich in smut, dirty talk, and in perverse detail.
I have seen, heard, or even spoken to women who take it personally that their husband or their boyfriend has called a phone sex service before. I don’t understand why you would assume phone sex is any different than watching a dirty movie – or even jerking off to a magazine. Those are things that enhance masturbation and phone sex is basically like an erotic story told rather than being written. Men who do like phone sex tend to be guys with deep imagination, and also men who appreciate language, voices, and personality. I see them as guys who like me (I’m always talking about myself you know) on the whole: they like the total package which means as a rule that is also how they view women. I think that’s a good thing.
Phone sex is different from a movie or magazine in the fact that you receive an “interaction” and “reaction” from another person. But the interaction isn’t necessarily a personal one on an intimate level. It’s more about the melding of dirty minds versus hearts or bodies. You can mentally and verbally interact with a subject that most people do not even dare discuss – masturbation. So it can be quite exciting to just sit back and discuss it with someone, in particular, a stranger. With a telephone conversation, you can say anything; you can even exaggerate your story to suit your fantasy, you can just discuss sex, or you can completely roleplay out a desire. But best of all phone sex is safe sex – no physical contact is made, no disease, no pregnancy, and it can be casual. So while “interaction” takes place – it’s on a nice safe level.
Another positive about paying for phone sex with a service…. You could say that you “get what you pay for”. You sure as hell don’t want to talk to a SHY girl – you want a babe that isn’t afraid of saying nasty dirty words – and a phone sex operator is kinda comfortable with it. Plus by buying a service for phone sex – you are also buying PRIVACY. As a rule, phone sex operators aren’t going to invade your life. We know and understand why a guy calls – we accept it and aren’t really seeking gifts or marriage proposals. You don’t have to worry about us becoming a “Fatal Attraction” type of relationship… you simply are purchasing our time for a little innocent naughty fun.
Phone Sex is safe sex. You can have as many partners as you want and act out every dirty fantasy that has ever entered into your mind – and never have to worry about diseases. You can be a stud, you can be a womanizer, you can be shy… you can be just about anything you want to be on the telephone.
There will always be people who do not “get” what phone sex is about. But then, maybe they’ve never tried it. Imagination is always key because the biggest sex organ is really the mind, not genitals.
Kisses,
Lynnea
