Lust is a Many Splendid Thing
The Many Faces of Lust
According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, lust is “usually intense or unbridled sexual desire: lasciviousness.” It can also mean “an intense longing or craving” or even “enthusiasm.” In other words, lust isn’t just about sex—it’s about a hunger, a spark, a drive.
But let’s be real: lust is not love. That’s exactly why I don’t see phone sex—whether with an operator or a service—as “cheating.” Sneaking behind a partner’s back might not be kind, but in my view, lustful fantasy and actual infidelity aren’t the same thing. That’s my little disclaimer.
Why It Feels So Good
For me, lust is a sensation, not an emotion. It ripples through your body as much as it lights up your brain. Do you remember your “first-time” experiences—the ones that left a mark? The kind of moments that shaped parts of your sexuality? That’s what lust does. It imprints itself.
I certainly remember the first time I had phone sex—a story I sometimes share on my calls. That first-time rush, that spark, is exactly what I associate with lust. It’s a powerful, sexy force. It floods your system with chemicals, heightens pleasure, creates new experiences, and builds memories you’ll revisit later… maybe during some solo time.
Without Strings
Here’s the truth: you don’t have to know someone deeply to feel lust for them. You don’t even have to like them romantically. Lust just is. You don’t always have to act on it. Sometimes it hits like a drug—one of the reasons it’s considered one of the seven deadly sins. It’s intoxicating, unpredictable, exciting. Sometimes you’ll find yourself lusting after someone you’d never normally find attractive. That’s part of its magic.
So why do we demonize pleasure? Our bodies were built for it. Lust exists for a reason. It shouldn’t ruin your life—sure, that’s where the “sin” part comes in—but acknowledging how good it feels and giving it its time and place? That’s a gift.
Living in it!
I live with a lot of lust. I feel it on two or three phone sex calls a day. That first rush of flirtation, the playful tension, the intimacy of sharing fantasies—it’s fresh and exciting every time. I feel it when I tell my secrets. I feel it when I’m blunt about sex, when I say things not meant for polite company. It makes me feel deliciously naughty.
Lust is unpredictable. Lust is powerful. Lust is a thrill.
Want to share some lust with me?
