I remember once, oh about a year ago that on ONE page of phoneflirts.com I had a statement of Real Phone Sex Conversations or something to that effect. Some operator, a competitor basically was bothered by it and decided to write to me and explain that phone sex was a fantasy. I laughed.
For some reason, the word REAL in phone sex pisses people off. You know – it’s a FANTASY it is not real blah blah blah… that’s what they say. As if I am a moron uh-huh. And I agree yes – to a certain extent. Phone sex is kind of like a great adventure… an exploration where you can make it be anything you want. Yet phone sex with me is real on some levels too. Shall I explain it?
It’s me Lynnea – the girl you talked to last year, or last week, or yesterday. Nobody else is pretending to be me. It’s really Lynnea each and every time you call.
I suck at acting so I prefer to be real…… as realistic. I don’t makeup stories of gang bangs,…. unless I’ve done it or fantasized about it. I am myself and I don’t claim to have blown 45 guys in a bathroom stall if I haven’t. Can I do a fantasy like that – hell yeah. But I won’t try to convince you of things that I am not. Instead, I’ll be real. I will just be my little ole normal self without putting on a flamboyant show.
I’m not a “poor” little girl that is desperate for money, calls or going to ask for presents/tips either. I make pretty damn good money doing phone sex baby. Yes, even with my cheap rates too. I’m real about it…. I won’t play helpless because I’m just not helpless. Besides, I happen to find self-sufficient intelligent PEOPLE that know how to take care of themselves to be far sexier and to be more real.
I talk to my callers in a real way. I use common sense, understanding, my personality, and a sense of fun in all my conversations. In other words, I talk to my callers the same way I might talk to any guy in a bar that I would be flirting with for real.
I have a real-life too. I do laundry, I go on vacations, sometimes I may get the flu, and yes I eat dinner too. I lead my real life on weekends for instance and that’s why I take them off away from the phone. I’m not afraid or ashamed to say those things to callers. It’s my real-life stuff – I happen to be more than just a phone operator. Do you get what I mean?
I’m reliable in a real way. I don’t change my schedule 50 times without notice to my callers. I don’t vanish for days or weeks on end. I don’t often take off during the hours I work. Nope, I commit to the hours you can reach me – I get real about it… and do my personal stuff on my own time. After all baby, I am running a real business here so I need to be really committed to it.
I’m real too because I know what I am good at and what I’m not. Here is a for instance – I suck at doing a harsh dominant fantasy. I just am not mean enough perhaps or I’m not comfortable behaving in a way that doesn’t feel like me. I don’t find myself to feel sexy in that role. I don’t advertise or promote myself in any way that resembles that role either because I know it’s not my thang. I often reject those calls sending them to someone that I know can fulfill their interests if they are not my cup of tea – why would I want to disappoint someone else or myself? I’d rather be real with that guy and let him know our interests aren’t connecting.
So in conclusion, I am real. I’m a real live girl with real thoughts, emotions, experiences, and desires. I try to treat my callers are real too… sure you could be my 11th call for the day, but you won’t be feeling that way 🙂
